đď¸Live: Letâs Get Unstuck x Ellen Scherr to Talk Midlife & the Moment You Canât Pretend Anymore
Weds, Dec 3rd at 5:30pm PST â A raw conversation about midlife, truth-telling, and the moment women stop pretending.
đď¸ JOIN US LIVE: Weds, 12/3 @5:30pm PST đď¸
âIf you read Ellen Scherrâs viral story then you already know why this live is happening.
I gotta say, damn it, I love this woman! Ellen Scherr has become a dear friend all due to Substack. I am so excited to interview this gem!
Her piece hit a nerve, yea, the good kind and the kind that makes every woman over 35 stop mid-scroll and whisper, âOh my God⌠YES.â
Because it finally put words to something so many of us feel:
That point in midlife where you stop smoothing the edges, stop apologizing, stop pretending, and your truth gets louder than your people-pleasing.
Not wonât pretend.
Canât pretend.
Your brain, your body, and your capacity for bullshit reach max capacity and suddenly youâre not operating on who you should be⌠youâre operating on who you are.
So Ellen and I decided it was time to talk about it.
Out loud. Unfiltered. Together. And likely to piss someone off.
𼴠What Weâre Talking About
That glitchy âsomething is offâ feeling in your 40s
The emotional labor weâve carried for decades
Why your tolerance for BS drops overnight
The shift from âDonât be too muchâ â âI actually donât care anymoreâ
Relationships changing as YOU change
Boundaries you never thought youâd set
Getting tired of performing
Getting tired of being âniceâ at the expense of your sanity
Gaining clarity, honesty, and your real damn self
This is not a pity party.
This is not a âwomen vs. menâ moment.
This is women telling the truth about their lived experience.
đŹ And Men⌠We Know Youâre Going Through It Too
Let me say this with love AND humor:
Men, donât get upset as we know you go through midlife too.
You just do it quietly, internally, and sometimes with that âIâm fineâ look on your faces.
We all process differently, each to their own!
This live isnât saying men donât struggle.
Itâs saying this particular conversation was written by a woman, for women
about a shift most of us have NEVER had language for.
Youâre welcome to watch (seriously),
but donât take it personally if we unpack a few things youâve never said out loud.
đĽ WHY YOU SHOULD BE THERE
Because if youâve been feeling:
overstretched
resentful
emotionally checked-out
tired of carrying everything
done pretending youâre OK
or suddenly more honest than youâve ever been
âŚthen this live is FOR YOU.
Youâre not broken.
Youâre not failing.
Youâre not âtoo much.â
You are waking up.
And weâre going to talk through it together.
đď¸ JOIN US, 12/3 @5:30pm PST đď¸
Pour your wine or a tea.
Bring your big girl pjs, your tired eyes, your humor, and your truth.
This is going to be real, grounding, emotional, and honestlyâŚprobably healing in ways we both donât see coming.
You do not want to miss this one. đŤśđť






Omg I canât wait to see this one Left a comment on one of her post and it has almost 800 likes lmfao wilddddddd
I think⌠reading this⌠i skipped my 40 and am heading straight for 50! Not smoothing out anything⌠wrinkles or egos here